The Cat's out the bag, You didn't think it was important...

Over the weekend.. I had such a great weekend by the way...  I got to really enjoy myself... I think I am getting back into the groove... :)

Ok let me give you readers the rundown.. SMH... 

As I told you all about my EX.. I knew about the other woman.. I knew about the trips and the party... I knew what the whole party was about... (I am good like that) 

Anyhoo for months of still dealing with my ex.. My ex still acting as if I was a friend the whole time... 

Facebook tells all...  I  know now as to why she deactivated her page for awhile..

I am not going to say I am a snooper by any means... I do say, when I feel I like to need to know what going on.. I have a way of FINDING OUT ANYTHING...  

I found out the stuff she was saying about her mother and her daughter were lies... It was that she had to come up with something to get rid of me. Her mother had told her girlfriend that she had another girlfriend (me).. Yes the heffa had an out of town girlfriend.. So that was the case of the trips back and forth to Georgia *which yall know I been thought that*... 

So once I saw that one of her co workers had said Congratulations on your union (tying the knot) I wish for the best in the relationship.. So you know me.. I also said congratulations..  Do you know she tried to lie about it STILL...? I was come on.. I've been knew about it.. I was just waiting on you to tell me..  Then in a dead silence... She  let this come out her mouth... I DIDN'T THINK IT WAS IMPORTANT... WTW?

Ok... for 1 we broke up in March.. Which means You trying to devote your life to someone you only been with for 3 months? You still call me everyday.. You still tell me you love me everyday... Yet you didn't feel it was IMPORTANT...  Go to hell with that shyt.. I felt like I had every right to know.. She still doesn't know that the girl was someone I found out about through someone she trust... I get it though... You wanted someone that lived near by.. Now this woman is planing on moving here... (I wish this woman good luck)... 

All it all.. It was important that I knew.. She feels like it was none of my business what she does with her life... 

I came to the conclusion.. She didn't think we ever went together...  She didn't think that I lost everything to be with her didn't matter... 

So no more grieving.. No more being lost and wanting to make things right... You lied to me... You did the UNTHINKABLE... I will NEVER TRUST you... Since you don't think I was important enough to tell me... I don't think you are important enough to be in my LIFE... Tootles...

The Truth Never Hurt Anybody... Not me anyway...

Today I became fed up with a lot of things.. When I feel that I am being lied to.. It came make me become really angry... Over the last few years, I have put up with some people where truth is hard for them to tell me. I know from experiences when I person lies to me.. I have became used to it.

Well the guy that I met a few months back via Facebook and Friends.. (he happens to know a lot of people I know personally)... We hit it off right off the bat.. He seems to be cool. I also see him as a good friend.. As I stated before, I am not looking for a relationship at this time. I am still trying to find out what will make me happy... Anyhoo.. When we started hanging out and chatting.. I asked him a few questions that I always ask a man...

1. Are you married or been married?
2. Do you have kids?
3. Where do you work?
4. What are your likes and dislikes?
5. If you are single, do you live with anyone?

He had answered "NO" to all the above. So I was like cool.. I live with my mother right now... I work a lot, but I don't like too.. Also I don't drive at this time, still trying to save to get a car.. I also love my family and friends... I like to hangout with them as much as possible...  I laid all my stuff on the line.. It is no reason for me to lie or fake the funky.. The "TRUTH" always come out in the long run... 

A few weeks had passed.. I started noticing things.. He told me he works 2 jobs.. So I was like since we don't get to see each other much.. Why don't you call me when you get off work.? He never called.. He went out one night.. I again asked him to call when he got in the house.. I even asked him since I was in his town, may I come over..  This man told me no to coming over.. He also "NEVER" calls me when he is at home.. It always while he is working or in his car.. 

So you know me.. I am like this fool lives with someone.. So I started asking him over and over to be HONEST with me.. So you know most men.. He is starting to think I am crazy.. I don't think I am though.. See he is talking like he wants to get to know me.. He is even acting like he wants a relationship... So before I fall for this cat.. I want to know the TRUTH.. 

Tonight I asked him to call me.. He never did,.. He just sent a text.. I told him you better tell me right now.. I am tired of this guessing game.. DO YOU LIVE WITH SOMEONE?  He finally told the TRUTH.. (at least he wants me to think that). He tells me he lives with his Aunt.. I was like ok.. What was so hard about that? I still believe there is something else to this.. Why living with your Aunt equals to you can't call me from your house?  I WANT THE TRUTH DAMN IT....