My Mindset....

I aint going to let things get to me.. Today MC posted his relationship status...  I truly believe I am over it.. I seriously didn't let it get to me..  I congratulated him and wished him all the happiness in the world.. The funny thing is I MEANT IT... He seems to be happy and I am glad..

My mindset right now is to have a positive outlook.. My world could be shut down and torn to pieces right now..  I thank God that it isn't.. Last week I lost a good friend due to cancer..  She was a fighter to the end.. She was always in a happy spirit even though her life took a different turn.. So right now she is truly my inspiration...

There is no longer a need to dwell on what I don't have.. It is no need to keep crying over my failed relationships.. All I need to do is be happy and keep on living life.. God has me here for a reason and I don't know what it is, but I will one day find out.

I feel some type of relief of the pressure.. I used to believe that I had to have certain things in order to be happy.. Well I no longer think that way.. I am a SIMPLE woman.. I have accepted the fact that I just want to live a normal, free spirited, simple life.  If I find a man or woman that is equally yoked as I.. Then  I will settle down..  Life is seriously too short to continue to worry.. So I am definitely looking on the BRIGHT side of things... Any and everything is possible...

I am going to Think, I am going to be POSITIVE.. I will no longer live my life with negative thoughts, actions, or spirits..

Happy New Year... 2011

Looking toward what the future brings..