What's in a Letter....

Ive been doing the 30 Days Facebook Challenge... Well today was  A picture and a letter... Today I posted this letter (which was inside a card) from my cousin.. This was back in 2004 when she wrote it. I kept it because it had a lot of meaning...
See I keep things like this...
In the letter she was saying about how I was acting when I first started actually dating MC... It was how she felt she had to start acting like the BIG Sis.. See I always took care of her..
I wish to this day she would read this same exact letter... See the words she wrote is the same words someone needs to tell her... She was saying how she would never lose her self or love another man that didn't love her in return.. A relationship that wouldn't hurt her...  Well guess what folks.. She is doing just that... I do not approve of her relationship.. He has been physical with her.. I feel as if he is using her.. He isn't working, he is ignorant. To top it off he  is young without an education.. She is in college and raising two children on her own.. I just don't get it...
How can you preach something you don't practice? I can tell you that MC wasn't never a bad boyfriend.. He just wasn't ready for a relationship..  At the time of her writing this letter, she was having her 1st child.. She felt that I wasn't there for her when she was pregnant..  I felt that I was but I did have to share time with my man..  Now with the relationship she is in.. I been slowly backing away from her.. I used to hang at her house on the weekends that I am off. Now it is that I really don't care to be there and listen to the mess... I don't approve of them always arguing with each other in front of the children. So what do you do... This person really isn't the person that wrote this note.. I truly believe some where she lost herself... I pray that one day she will once regain her strong, positive mind...