When did love become Magical?

"Love isn't a decision, it's a feeling. If we could decide who we loved it would be much more simple but less magical...."


This quote above cause all kinds of debates today on my friend's Facebook Page...


There were just a few that agreed with me.. I believe that Love is a decision.. I think so in so many ways.. Granted you can't choose who you fall in love with.. Yet you can choose who you want to spend your life with. See my thing is.. I can love someone. If this person isn't right for me.. Then I would make the choice to love from a distance... It is like this.. If I start liking someone.. He shows all kind of traits that I don't want in a man.. I MOVE on and not continue to see him knowing I might fall in love with him...


Well the other thought that I was some bitter woman.. They think I never been in love... Well we all know that that isn't true.. See the MAGICAL part got to me.. When did love become MAGICAL? What magic happens? I've been in love and I never saw pixie dust... I've   been in love and it wasn't a magical carpet ride.. When I think of Magical I think of Disney World. I don't believe in fairytales... I live my life in reality... 


Why would someone set themselves up for disappointment? I really don't believe in doing that to myself. I LOVE the idea of LOVE.. I am a loving person.  I know everyone is human and they have flaws and all.. So why would I look to someone to be my Prince Charming? Why would look for that Knight in Shining Armour?  I am just looking for someone to make me HAPPY... This person doesn't have to be PERFECT... He must meet my requirements... If I can laugh with him.. If he is respectful..  Also must have a job and a car... We good... He doesn't have to give me the world... Just make me happy.. It is that simple.. 


One of my friends says that Magical to her is can't wait to see that person.. She wants to spend all her time with that person.. The person even gives her butterflies when they are around...  I got the point... I still didn't see the magical aspects of it...   I just say this.. What might be magical to some, isn't magical for others....