Thursday, July 7, 2011

Day 20. Computer Love... No Long Distance....

Day 20~ Do you believe in Long Distance/Internet Love? Why or Why not?




Do I believe in Long Distance relationships... Hell to the NAH... I can be friends with people that live far away... I will not date anyone that takes more than 2 hours to get to.. I am sorry, I just don't believe in it.. I have to be able to see this person on the regular (if you want to remain in a committed relationship).. I have been through this and It isn't a pretty sight when you find out what they were doing when you weren't around. 


Internet Love.. Another HELL TO THE FREAKING NAH.... I even tried it once... I wouldn't date anyone I met off the net.. I thought the whole thing was stupid. I am a person who is a visual human. I happened to be in a Yahoo group.. I started chatting with a a guy that seemed to have all his shyt together.. We chatted and I even fell in love with his conversations... We did this for 3 years straight.. So it was time to met.. He wanted me to move out there with him.. He wanted to spend every waking day with me.. (I wasn't going to do that) So I go out there.. How about the BASTID never showed up?  I was out there for a whole week.. I didn't see or hear from his ass.. I never heard from him until 6 months later.. He never gave me a reason... I ended up dating MC by that time.. So I never talked to him again..  It was until this year via FB... He told me he got mad at me because he thinks I did something on his page.. He think I wrote something on there that said he was gay... I thought that was a bunch of bull.. I never went to his page in the 1st place... I don't even think he knows why he didn't show up.. 


So know I wouldn't do it.. I will be friends with a lot of people that I closely connect with.. It will not be a relationship or marriage coming out of it.. I have found that majority of these people lie, cheat, and hump around with everyone on the net.. I will not be the one...

4 comments:

No Labels said...

I do understand your being a bit jaded about it. My story is a little bit different; I'm sure you will get a great chuckle out of it.

Thee_Kween said...

There was a time I'd debate you. IDGAF right now. lol

Toshi said...

I've had both in one... as you know we tried again this year but now it's ten years later and I wasn't feeling it lol

Mahoganydymond™ said...

@ Kali.. I know you would have.. You see what I am talking about now though...

@Toshi, I just can't do it.. After being stood up and treated not so well.. I wouldn't allow myself to go back into that..

SO No!!

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