Love is blind.. But we can't be stupid...

Love is so blind. We can care so much for a person to it blinds us as to what is really going on. I hate that someone could go through that. I have been through that so many times. I feel for those who don't know how to get out.

I talked to someone last night that  I feel we have such a warm connection with. She seems to be a wonderful woman. I hate that some days she feels down. I was happy to know that I was able to lift her spirits.

She has been in love with someone for a while now. It is going on some years that they have been together. She said she can't count on one hand how many time her man cheated on her.  At times she gets mad, but then know that she loves him so much. She tends to let it all slide away. It is to the next time she finds out about someone else. Now this can be a dangerous situation. You never know what another person is capable of doing. I just hope that soon she will find away to value herself a lot more. She is too beautiful and such an awesome soul to put up with it.

I've been there. I was with someone for years and they cheated on me constantly. It might have been physical just once. He was just a mental cheater. I forgot what the term they called it. It is like talking to other that you have not been physical with yet have feeling for. I would always put it to the side. It was mostly because I enjoyed being in his company and he was very good to me.

After all is said an done. Are we so blinded to where we can't see the truth. The lies, The deceit, and emotions that come with it all... Love really makes us do and say stupid things. So many of us been blinded by love. I am just glad I have finally learned the signs. So in the long run I won't feel stupid in the end.