I had stopped hanging around her, because I could not deal with all the mess he has put her through and she refused to listen to any of it.. It began from the 1st time they started dating.. I didn't care for him. He was to young and she has a lot going for her..
Then I found out about him and his abusive past. I knew it when I 1st laid eyes on him.. I tried telling her. I've been with his type before so I recognized the signs. Yet she kept telling me he isn't like that.
A few months later me and him got into it because he wrecked her car. I told her then.. LEAVE HIM ALONE. She wouldn't do it. I didn't know what hold this man had on her but I didn't like it. They would argue all the time and it just wasn't healthy for her or her kids. She didn't even know this man that long and he was already turning her life upside down... It became that me and a few of her other friends just stopped coming around. I knew we would catch a charge if we had to be around him.. She told me that she had been tell him that she needed for him to leave. She wasn't happy with the way the relationship was going. He even started accusing her of things..
So tonight she told me what he did to her. It broke me down. Cause it wasn't something I wanted her to go through. I've been through it myself... I am going to be there for her.. I just pray that she doesn't take him back again... Love is suppose to be kind and loving.. A person you suppose to care about is not suppose to hit you.. A person that claims to love you suppose to make you happy.. I wish this type of thing would end.. No person suppose to lay a hand on their wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend.. It is just not right..
I am just glad that she finally saw what so many of us have been telling her.. I just hate that it came out this way..
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