I am happy for one of my girlfriends. I don't care for her choices, but if she feels happy oh well.. This man has made me not even want to step foot in her house. I try to keep positivity around me. I try to be my free spirit and happy self. It is hard when you feel you are being watched by some creature... He is the type of guy who is so jealous of his girlfriend friendships. He tried everything to destroy it.. I tell you he has succeed. I didn't want that to be the case. I felt I had no other choice.
I want to sit down and get my group of girls together and just talk. I've want her to know that it isn't that we abandoned her. We just can't deal with the disrespect and the fact that he is so young. What can this man do with 30 something year old women and men..? He is not over 21 as of yet. We have told her we don't feel comfortable around him.
She feels that we are wrong. She feels like we should accept her choices in life. She wants us to respect her choices.. I have, I don't bad mouth that sorry ass, ugly muthafudrucker to her face.. I still call her and we talk about other things.. I don't want to loose the friendship and the bond we have over this young nig... Me and the other girls are just outside looking in.. We only see what is visible.. I don't know what goes on when we aren't around.. We don't know how he treats her.. We just go by what she says and what we saw...
I just don't see how a woman can still forgive a man that wrecks your car, curses you out, and don't want you to interact with your friends.. Yet he checks her phone calls.. He calls back numbers of the last person she talks too.. I remember after he wrecked her car.. She said.. They have good times together.. We only been around when the bad stuff happens.. So we need to lay off him.. So yes this is what I did.. I wish her all the luck in the world..
I just want to say Girlfriend, can we get together and talk....
.. You know this is what friends are for.. We are each others shoulder...
4 comments:
You can talk to her all you want. Unless she see's it for herself, ain't shit you or anybody else can do. She's blinded by the Penis. Maybe she'll see it when he tries to seriously hurt HER ass.
I know Wizzy.. He suppose to be going to court soon about domestic violence with his last girlfriend.. So maybe then she will see.. She thinks she is different...
As my grandmother would say, "That ain't nothing but Love." Lol. Either love, or she just doesn't want to see the truth for what it really is. From my personal experience whenever such control becomes the issue ... it's not all about the present but something that she perhaps experienced in the past with an ex, and doesn't want to feel all alone again?
Just a thought.
Oh. I didn't know you were on Twitter. I followed you @minusthebars
Don.. I really think that is her problem right now.. She is not used to being a MAN'S main girl.. She is getting some attention that she never had before...
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