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1. One that swings: a good swinger of baseball bats.
2. Slang
a. A person who actively seeks excitement and moves with the latest trends.
b. A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex.
c. A member of a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners.
I've thought about it once or twice in my life. Although there have been times I was put into a situation that could be considered Swinging.. I never thought of myself as being a "SWINGER"...
I think being the type of "FREE SPIRIT" that I am maybe I would fit right into that lifestyle. I do though have my morals and my standards. I don't think that I can go to the parties and the clubs.. I think if I was in a marriage I think that would be just one of the couple that we would get together EVERY BLUE MOON... It wouldn't be when ever they felt like it..
I remember when me and my cousin was dating friends. We would get rooms together. Her man would always say "SWITCH" and I would tell my boyfriend.. HELL to the NO.. I am not about to SEX her BOYFRIEND.. Cause I knew that wouldn't have a good outcome. I was secure, but I know how she worked and think. So I wasn't about to break that family bond.. Plus I was NO WAY near attracted to him.
So my thoughts on Swinging.. Maybe it is cool.. It all depends on the person and how you interact with the person.. I will not live that lifestyle though.. I think it would be too much stress... I have enough I am dealing with than to be dealing with that other stuff...
6 comments:
I've never done it. But I'd try it once if my significant other intimated that she wanted to give it a shot.
Right, if they like it...oh well. lol
Reggie I used to want too.. Then after going to one of those clubs in Atlanta.. I was like.. I love sex but not like that.. lol
I would do ALMOST anything once.
Well I will watch.. I just can't swing..
You are right. With swinging..feelings can get hurt .. and quick. You were right to hesitate. It wasn't worth it.
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